Boundary Assistant

Clarify and communicate what you are and aren't comfortable with. Select common boundaries or add your own, then generate a statement to share with your audience.

Establishing clear boundaries can protect your well-being and set expectations. This tool does not enforce boundaries; it simply helps you articulate them.

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Privacy & Safety Best Practices

  • • Protect your location: Never share your exact location, city, or personal details that could identify where you live or work.
  • • Take time offline: Set clear hours when you're not available. You don't need to be accessible 24/7.
  • • You don't owe disclosure: You don't have to share personal information, real name, or details about your life outside of content creation.
  • • Offline boundaries matter: Be clear about no meetups, no personal contact, and no sharing of personal social media accounts.
  • • Mental health first: If interactions become overwhelming, it's okay to step back. Your well-being comes before any content or income.

Why Boundaries Matter

  • • Protect your well-being: Boundaries empower you to control your interactions and protect your mental health. They're not restrictions. They're self-care.
  • • Build trust: Clear communication builds trust and reduces misunderstandings. Supporters appreciate knowing what to expect.
  • • Set expectations: Reinforce that your terms are non-negotiable and consistent. This prevents boundary-pushing and uncomfortable situations.
  • • Professional boundaries: Treat this like any business. You set the terms, and clients respect them or move on.

Remember: Boundaries may evolve over time as you learn what works for you. Review and update them regularly. This tool is for educational support and does not enforce boundaries. You must communicate and enforce them yourself.